Okay, what now?

With a piece of the Antarctica ice shelf about the size of Delaware ready to break off, yeah, I believe in climate change. With seas rising to the point where small island nations in the Pacific may be wiped out, weather events becoming more extreme, and oceans becoming warmer, yeah, I believe in climate change…oh, and don’t forget the increasing levels of carbon dioxide in the atmosphere. However, there is good news to report…Republican Congressman Tim Walberg of Michigan let it be known recently that while he believes the climate has been changing since the beginning of time, when the problem becomes too big, that God will take care of it. You go, Tim, you the man! I suppose we should be pleased that he didn’t tweet something as ridiculous as Trump did when he said, “The concept of global warming was created by and for the Chinese in order to make U.S. manufacturing non-competitive.” Okay, despite the fact that he tweeted it, he did later say that it was a joke. Gee, Donny, if you thought it was a joke, why the hell did you pull us out of the Paris Accord…just so we could be like Syria and Nicaragua, those world leader nations? There are others in the “what climate change” padded cell, including Rep. Paul Broun of Georgia who has said, “Scientists all over this world say that the idea of human-induced global climate change is one of the greatest hoaxes perpetrated out of the scientific community. It is a hoax. There is no scientific consensus.” Uh, gee, Paul, how many scientists have you talked to lately.

However, political gaffes don’t all have to do with climate change or global warming. Day in, day out, week in, week out, year in, year out, we hear from our politicians’ idiotic remarks that must cause many of us to pause and ask ourselves, “Why the hell did we ever elect that damned fool to represent us?” For example, “If it’s legitimate rape, the female body has ways to try to shut that whole thing down.” said Rep. Todd Akin (R-Missouri). Excuse me, but what is “legitimate” about rape in the first place, and please, please, explain to a group of rape victims how they could have “shut that whole thing down.” Then there was this gem: “All that stuff I was taught about evolution and embryology and the big bang theory, all that is lies straight from the pit of Hell.” Rep. Paul Broun (R-Ga.) said. Broun, a member of the House Committee on Science, Space, and Technology, is a doctor, and would have been taught many of the generally accepted principles of evolution and embryology in medical school. Eeek!

A few years ago, we were in the middle of a financial crisis, fighting two wars, losing jobs at an intolerable rate, but Representative Peter King of NY thought it would be a good idea to introduce a bill in Congress that “…any mobile phone containing a digital camera that is manufactured for sale in the United States shall sound a tone or other sound audible within a reasonable radius of the phone whenever a photograph is taken with the camera in such phone. A mobile phone manufactured after such date shall not be equipped with a means of disabling or silencing such tone or sound.” Wow, that’s really taking action against…against…wait a minute, what about the people who already have these ‘silent phone cameras?’

When it comes right down to it, dumb, stupid, ignorant, or arrogant actions or words by our politicians are not only not funny, they are a reflection on us the American public who voted these idiots into office. Aside from very few inconsequential pieces of legislation, what the hell has the United States Congress been doing for the past ten years? Really, think about it, and yet every two or four years, we keep putting these jerks back in their little seats where they refuse to have anything to do who isn’t a member of their own party. This is just plain wrong!

Republican members of Congress had nearly eight years to develop a health care program that would be ‘better’ than the Affordable Care Act (ACA) pushed through by Obama. Everyone and his brother knew that this was not a perfect ‘cure’ for Americans everywhere. Instead, the members of the Republican Congress time and time and time again, attempted to pass measures that would either gut or defund the ACA rather than working behind the scenes to come up with an alternative that would be acceptable to both Democratic colleagues and a new person in the White House. What happened is known to all. No one bothered to think things through until the White House did become occupied by a member of the GOP, and then, the bill they came up with couldn’t even pass because members of their own party wouldn’t accept it. Seems to me that Bobby Jindal hit the nail on the head when he said, “We have got to stop being the party of stupid.”

Hey, I’m the first one to say that bureaucracy in Washington is totally out of control. Redundancy is piled atop redundancy as it was decades ago when I was serving a tour at the Pentagon. There was a plethora of stupid idiots with their thumbs in their bums and their minds in neutral (thanks, Cecily) and who would run like hell from anything vaguely resembling the dirty word, “work.” I am quite certain that the same is true for Senators and Representatives…their people are their people and by God, the bigger the staff, the more important the leader. Just to give you one example of redundancy upon redundancy, there are – as far as we know – 17 different agencies responsible for collecting and acting upon intelligence. After 9/11, the Office of the Director of National Intelligence was created to coordinate the activities of the other 16 agencies. Here we go, there is the CIA, NSA, DIA, FBI, DSBI&R, DHS-OIA, DEA-ONSI, DT-OIA, DE-OI&C, NG-IA, NRO, AFIS&R, AMI, ONI, USMCI, and CGI. Now, I could tell you what all of those initials mean, but then I’d have to come to your house and kill you, and what the hell, neither of us wants that. From all of those initials, however, you can understand why I believe that we are just a wee bit overburdened with conflicting intelligence bullshit gathered from too many agencies, employing too many people with just way too much time on their hands.

I’m truly sorry, but God will not protect us from people like Representatives Walberg or Broun, or the entire United States Congress, nor will the Creator, if that happens to be your belief, protect us from someone like Donald Trump who has already served to alienate most of our European allies as well, it would appear, as the Pope. At home, some 1,100 positions that have to undergo Congressional approval have yet to have nominations sent to the Hill. If this is Mr. Trump’s idea of reducing government, he’s doing a hell of a job of it, but it would seem that his ‘deconstruction’ of government may very well end up creating more problems than it will solve.

Have we become a world of savages? Are we de-evolutionizing as opposed to evolving? There seems to be more glorification and sensationalization of the morbid and hate-filled actions of people in our newscasts these days than ever before. If I had to watch the Indianapolis 500 crash as part of local regional and national news, I think I might have vomited mightily. As if that’s not bad enough, at one point this morning, all eight television sets at the gym were showing Bryce Harper being hit by a pitch and then attacking pitcher, Hunter Strickland, with close-ups of both men exchanging punches. The benches cleared and the cameras kept rolling and the newscasters kept commenting. I mean, come on, sure, we all know that “if it bleeds, it leads,” but what comes next? Some poor reporter in Portland is probably getting chewed out by an assignment editor because he/she wasn’t on the scene to film the knife wounds of the two would-be rescuers’ by that nut job on the rail line. That may be a bit extreme, but in this day and age, I’m not all that certain.

Can you imagine what it would have been like if we’d had television in the days of the Civil War. “We take you now to Western Tennessee where our crack team of reporters are counting the dead.”

“Thanks, Bill, and here on the Confederate side, as you can see by the dead and bleeding wounded around me [cut to close-up of soldier gurgling blood from his mouth beside three dead bodies, horribly mutilated], things don’t look too good for the Southern boys at this time…and now over to you, Sharon, for the Union view.”

“Thanks, Ted. As you can see behind me, Union soldiers are stacked up like cord-wood after Confederate artillery blew their encampment to pieces. However, morale is still high here, since President Lincoln is expected to arrive tomorrow to give a pep talk to the remaining troops. [Union soldier walks behind her carrying the severed head of a comrade, and in a cheery voice, Sharon says], we’ll be on site tomorrow to bring you the President’s address. Until then, that’s it from Shiloh, and now back to you, Bill, in the studio.”

It might appear humorous but why do we have to be exposed to this blood and gore? The answer, of course, is that we don’t. We can always turn off the tube, go to social media and learn who is trying to convince whom to commit suicide, parentacide, genocide, grandparent-a-cide, or some other cide that will be tomorrow’s headlines on television.

If you can believe this one, and I swear it’s true, I was watching the evening news the other night, and the story was about a stabbing that took place outside the entrance to some condominiums in Boston. The only thing remaining at the scene was a pool of blood, and by God, that’s exactly what the camera person and the reporter were focused on. Merriam Webster defines journalism as “the collection and editing of news for presentation through the media.” News is further defined as “a report of recent events.” Gotta tell ya…that pool of blood looked pretty congealed to me so I really wouldn’t look at it as a recent thing. Perhaps showing the spot where the blood had been cleaned up is considered “old news,” but who’s to say?

Perhaps we’re living at a time when there’s not a whole helluva lot of good news to report. Perhaps people don’t want to hear good news because they’re rather pissed off at their own life or lack thereof. Whatever the case may be, I just don’t see much to brighten up my morning, noon, or evening. Here’s a headline from a recent issue of the Chicago Tribune, “Memorial Day shootings leave 6 dead 18 wounded,” or how about this from the Atlanta Journal-Constitution, “Woman shot in grocery store: Police searching for shooter.” I could go on and on, but it’s pretty much the same across the country, and I would imagine it’s pretty much the same with TV stations around the nation. I’m not a big fan of Donald Trump, but I’d like to have heard more of what he had to say in his Memorial Day speech at Arlington. What I heard was very good: “We cannot replace, we cannot repay, we can only remember what they did for us,” is sort of a paraphrase of one part of his remarks. But that was it for the television reports. He added, “We only hope that every day we can prove worthy, not only of their sacrifice and service, but of the sacrifice made by the families and loved ones they left behind.” That, I had to get from an in-depth newspaper report the following day. It was about the warmest set of remarks I’ve heard from this ‘leader’ of the free world and I wish the television reports would have given us more.

It may be that in my dotage, I’ve become too much of a cynic. I don’t think so, but it’s possible. I sure wish they’d bring back that old news program I so enjoyed on Sunday mornings, “Good news, America.” Yep, that just set me up for the blood and gore movie that would follow the show every single Sunday. Made goin’ to church seem almost worthwhile!

I’m beginning to consider myself somewhat odd. While that may not sound like a strange admission to those of you who have read other little essays that I’ve written for this blog, I think I may be talking about something different. Let me tell you what happened. I graduated high school in 1952 and went straight to college. Didn’t really have a clue about what to study, hadn’t taken any college preparatory classes and, quite frankly, I wasn’t living a life. It was more like I was just a “glumpf” existing on the surface of the earth. My sister had moved away and gone to New York. Mum and Dad were doing their thing, whatever that might have been, and me, I was just sorta there. My kid brother wouldn’t be born for another eleven years. I was working in a grocery store and if you want to talk about drifting through life, you-are-looking-at-prime-example-number-one.

If you want to talk about losing track of everything hometown related, that was me the minute I stepped into my first college classroom. I remember Gil MacDonald, then Dean of Students speaking to our entering class in Room 200 of Richards Hall on the asphalt campus of Northeastern University. “Look to the person on your left. Look to the person on your right. Two of you will not be here in 1957.” That was some scary stuff. On my left was a high school classmate, George White, and on my left was Bob Dennis from Abington, both of whom, I knew, had taken classes that would prepare them for college and both, I assumed, were a hell of a lot smarter than this cookie. Looked pretty much to me, that I’d be the one left out in the cold and back stocking shelves in the A&P…not a particularly exciting prospect for the rest of my life.

Interestingly enough, George and I were both in the College of Business Administration, he a finance and insurance major and yours truly studying in the field of marketing and advertising. Bob, well hell, Bob went completely off the rails and jumped into the College of Engineering. Over the course of our five years – Northeastern being a co-op school – we rarely saw much of one another, except when we were carpooling. George was the only one with a car. We’d pick up Bob in Abington, Kevin Ferullo, ‘Chooch’ McGlone and George Loud in Weymouth, and we wouldn’t see one another until the end of the day when we’d gather at the car or when George would just leave with one or two of us because the others had late classes or, as in my own case, had gotten involved with unrelated curricula activities. It’s funny how I remember these things. The kicker is that, in looking back, something unique occurred at the same time. Those five people became my “world of friends,” because if I wasn’t in class, serving in student government, rehearsing for a play, pledging a fraternity, or doing some other diddly-ass thing, I was in the car – which was really crowded with the six of us – in class, studying, doing homework into the wee hours, or working. Old friends from high school? I don’t have a clue as to what rabbit hole they dropped into. I’m quite certain that many of them went on to college. Some, I later learned, went directly into the service, but whatever they were doing, they dropped completely from my life. And this is what I find rather odd.

On April 8, 1957, with my last final exam taken and passed, I came home and went to work. On April 10th, I began a new career, working as an administrator at Northeastern. In June, I, along with George and Bob – so there, Gil – received our degrees. Less than a month later, I was getting married, moving to Westborough, and in December of that year began my first stint in the Army. I did not return to my hometown, other than to visit my folks, for another 45 years.

In 2002 my high school celebrated its 50th reunion. Although I didn’t attend, someone sent me a program of the occasion. It was only then that I learned how many of my classmates were no longer living. It was shocking. It shouldn’t have been because that’s the way life is. People die every day, but it was still something of a shock to see all of those names. My best friend from high school, Tom, ‘Po-Po’ Roberts was on the list of deceased. That hurt. I learned later that he’d died from cancer while he was still rather young. After contacting a few classmates, I learned that this one also died of cancer, another of a heart attack, another drank himself to death and so on and so forth. I’d spent twelve of my formative years with many of those people, but I hadn’t been around when they died. Our town was relatively small. If we weren’t in elementary school together, we certainly met in junior high and spent that and high school in the same classes or in some sports arena or other. We all knew one another, at least, I thought we did, so there was also a feeling of some guilt that I hadn’t been there for those who had died.

If there is a moral to this long tale, I guess it’s that one should never forget one’s friends. Oh, sure, move along with your life. Make the best of what you have, who you are, and what you’re able to do. Develop new friendships…but don’t forget the old. Before you know it, you’ll wind up in your 70s or 80s, wondering what the hell happened to the kid you once were. Wouldn’t it be nice if you could at least share some of those memories with your old BFF with an emphasis on that last F?

Dad loved cars. Growing up, he could afford to buy new ones. Then the crash of ’29 crushed the family business, and it was no more new cars for my father. That didn’t lessen his love for the darn things, and he could always be found, on a Saturday or Sunday morning, either washing, waxing, polishing, or tinkering with whatever vehicle we happened to have in the driveway at the time. Even though the Wall Street disaster found my family trudging through the lower half of what was then called “the middle class” – come to think of it, I don’t believe there were such labels back then – my dad still managed to find a way to buy a new car every three to six years. I think what he most liked about the new cars was the smell, you know the one I mean. There’s something about climbing behind the wheel of a brand new car and taking a deep breath that can be absolutely intoxicating. To hell with those fake little pine trees, hanging from the rear view mirror. It’s the smell of new leather, new fabric, new vinyl, new…new…new car!

I learned to drive on a 1936 Chevrolet four-door sedan. It was the car dad would take every Sunday down to Assinippi, a four-corner intersection of Norwell, Massachusetts, and where we would load up everything from The New York Times to the Boston Post with the Boston Globe and Record-American tossed in. We’d pick up the papers shortly before five in the morning – often having to wait a while for the final sections of ‘The Times’ to be delivered – loading the car with enough weight that the rear bumper damn near hit the road…which it actually did on a few occasions because all of the roads we traveled were not that well paved. Once loaded to the gunnels, we would head up to Hingham to begin our morning trek. Dad would drive. I’d be riding shotgun, reaching over to grab a paper or so, ready to jump out before the car had completely stopped and running to a front, side, or back door, to put the paper inside a storm door, under a rock, or in a mailbox. The money was generally waiting somewhere, and tips would range anywhere from a nickel to a quarter. Our route took us from Hingham into Hanover and from Norwell back into Hingham and then back to Norwell. We generally finished our run by 11:30, but it was a lot of running and a hell of a lot of driving. I got all of the tips and dad was paid by the news dealer. It was during these trips that dad would instruct me on how to drive the standard transmission Chevy, and how I was allowed, near the end of our run to put what I’d learned to his test. And I have to tell you, dad was a taskmaster. I learned the sounds an engine makes when it’s telling you to go from first to second to third – no classy dials to tell us when shifting should take place. This was all about listening. On the way home, I’d generally be told how I did, the mistakes I’d made, and how I could improve my driving skills. Dad wasn’t all that big on compliments, just “adjustments.”

In early 1941, long before World War II occurred, dad bought a new Chevy. Other than a Terraplane somewhere along the line, I think Chevrolet had a firm grip on dad’s wallet. This new set of wheels was the first we’d ever owned with an automatic transmission. It was called “Powerglide,” and as you might imagine, because of its ‘newness,’ we spent many an hour at Clark & Taylor Chevrolet in Weymouth while the bugs were worked out. Actually, it was a great car, and I can even remember that it was seafoam green. I also remember…the new car smell. To top it all off, the car sold for well under $1,000!

Oh, how times have changed. Granted, dad wasn’t making 25, 50 or a hundred K per year, and bread wasn’t upwards of three or four bucks or more a pop, but I sure wish I could afford a new car the way he could. My first car was a 1941 Chevy Coupe. It had belonged to my grandparents. You know the old sales pitch, “Driven by a little old lady who only took it to church on Sundays?” Well, that was just about the truth for my first set of wheels. They were meticulous in their care of that car. So what did I do? I spray painted the dashboard matt black with fire-engine red highlights everywhere. Then I replace the dull gray fabric door coverings with some god-awful plastic black and white Jackson Pollock-esque vinyl that made the interior to resemble a whorehouse on wheels…which it never became…dammit! It was a great car, and if I had it today and hadn’t screwed it up so much, it would be worth a small fortune…ah, well.

However, as much as I loved my old Chevy, I have had a few new cars along the way to my dotage. Now, I stare at the ads on TV, thinking about how much I’d love to own a “newy.” Of course, I know better. My trusty 199 Toyota Camry – which I purchased for damn near three times what dad paid for that ’41 Chevy – has well over a hundred and sixty thousand miles on it, and I’d get squat for it as a trade in, so I might’s well just keep putting a few bucks in here and there and forget the new car smell. Even with the extra money they give for recent college graduates – does 1957 count as recent? – it’s still not enough to entice me to wreak havoc with my bank account. Someday, someone will come up with “New Car Smell In A Can” and we can all refresh our old wheels without breaking the bank or having to take a second mortgage on the…oops, forgot about the kids’ tuition…make that take out a third mortgage on the house, just to buy a new car with that smell. Okay, time to go sit in the car and dream…thanks for listening to another rant from yours truly!

Without question, what happened in Manchester, England is beyond comprehension. “Evil losers,” as Donald Trump has called those responsible, perhaps begins to describe those responsible, and yet, I’m not certain there are any words in the vocabulary of any peoples that adequately describe the mindset of what we now classify as “terrorists.”

We are attempting to ascribe to others our own morality, and we are attempting to apply our own cultural mores, ie, “the essential or characteristic customs and conventions of a community,” to those who are completely different from any of the characteristics, customs or conventions of any community. Their moral compass is 180 degrees from that of Western Civilization. What these “radical jihadists’ have done is to cannibalize all of the beauty of the religion of Islam and turned it to their own egregious ends. In effect, they are completely ignorant of the Quran, its teachings, or even their own end game. Their ultimate goal appears to be killing for the sake of killing and terrorizing those more culturally developed nations into fearing them purely for the sake of fear. I have yet to hear anyone in any leadership position within ISIS, ISL, Al Qaeda, Taliban, or whoever happens to be calling the shots these days, issue any statement of purpose or what it is they wish to achieve.

As I understand it, Salman Abedi used to be a “lovely kid” when he first attended Didsbury mosque with his father. Something changed. What was it? Was he confused by his family, his schools, the study of business management, his friends, what? We will never know. Perhaps this was a young man who turned to radical Islam as an escape from pressures that he felt, but that others didn’t. We will never, ever know, why this man/child exploded a device that, so far, has killed 22 and injured more than 160 people of all ages.

I have a theory. It goes something like this: I believe that all of these people who blow themselves up in the name of something they don’t fully understand are weak-willed and ignorant immature sheep. I would classify them as lemmings, but we all know that that is a myth created by a Canadian film crew back in the 50s. I’d say that they should be driven out of the Middle East the way St. Patrick drove the snakes out of Ireland except we also know that never happened. No, these people are sheep, searching for a shepherd to lead them and give them some direction. Unfortunately, the leadership they find is with arrogant, ultra-conservative groups and individuals who brainwash the sheep into believing that they will live a much better life after death, and that their ‘ultimate’ sacrifice will please the god they worship. All of this, of course, is pure fabrication consisting of half-truths and outright prevarications.

Following a religion is a bitch. Seriously, being tied to a single faith, whether it’s Christianity, Judaism, Muslim, Hindi, or any one of a million other faiths, only tends to create problems with those of other faiths. As stupid as it may sound today, I was banned from having a serious relationship in high school because my girlfriend’s family were strict Roman Catholics and I, god forbid, was a Protestant. As life would have it, I married a woman who was Roman Catholic by religion, and our children were raised as ‘they’ wished to be raised. We took them to a variety of Christian churches and were allowed to make their own decisions regarding faith. Would we have blessed an inter-religion or inter-racial marriage? I don’t have an answer for that, largely because it never became an issue. Look, if you will, at the restrictions imposed by the Holy See. They may not lead to war, but there are some pretty strong “Oh, no, you don’ts’ in that faith. It appears that the Muslim faith, as practiced by some sects in the Middle East is akin to, “My way or the highway,” and in this case it’s the highway to death. Can you imagine, for example, a minister, priest, or rabbi telling his or her congregation to stone a woman to death because she went out in public without her hajib or because she wanted to divorce her unfaithful husband? The people who are putting forth laws created in the time of Caesar or before have no concept of gray for anyone other than themselves. It’s fine for them to rape, rob, and pillage wherever, whoever, and whenever they so desire, but they do so in the name of their god without fully comprehending the messages of their god.

There will be more attacks, particularly on Western Civilizations, particularly on countries that are predominantly other than Muslim. On the other side of that coin, however, there are millions upon millions of Muslims who understand perfectly well what Allah’s teachings were and are. They are at peace with their religion and religions as practiced by others. Do they understand these other religions? Perhaps so, perhaps not. Do those of us in other religions understand Islam? Perhaps so, perhaps not.

I’m quite certain that there are some people in the Middle East, Taliban, ISIS, and all of the others, who consider themselves to be “freedom fighters” as opposed to terrorists. I don’t know what freedom they are fighting for, nor do I really care. I’m certain also that they believe those who are attempting to exterminate them are, in their own right, ‘terrorists,’ and that includes the American and other nations’ soldiers who are shooting at them. Who’s right? Who’s wrong? Most important of all, how do we prevent these extremists from continuing to kill innocents. If you have an answer to that one, I’m all ears.

I walk with the aid of a cane. No big surprise there, but it certainly does help me to get around. Recently, I visited a nursery, searching for a particular type of tomato plant. The nursery has several buildings. Next to the parking lot is a small building where bird seed, garden implements, and plant food are sold. Beside that is a small arbor that connects to the building where flowers, pots and (very expensive) decorative fixtures are sold. Plants are located in a greenhouse some thirty or forty yards beyond these buildings. The scene is now set.

Emerging from my car, I notices a man wearing the logo of the nursery on his shirt. He was sitting in the small building, which I should also note is open in the front, but anyway, the man was sitting on some of the bags of bird seed. As I approached, he rose and asked if I needed assistance. “Yes,” I replied, “I wonder if you have heirloom tomatoes and, in particular, I’m looking for a Black Crim.” “I don’t know,” he answered, “you’ll have to check at the greenhouse.”

I won’t kid you. There was a time when I could have run to the greenhouse without a problem. My late wife and I had purchased many plants and flowers from this nursery and had been highly satisfied. The walk to the greenhouse this time around was an effort – goes with age, I guess. In the greenhouse, I found a very knowledgeable young woman who told me that, at the moment, they did not have the tomato plant for which I was searching, but if I would follow her, she would check to see if they were expecting any. Back we walked to the flower building, where she reached through an opening, grabbed a walkie-talkie and called someone – who knows who – to ask if they were expecting any Black Crim tomato plants in the future. “Some coming in next week,” was the reply. “I can’t really save one for you,” the woman told me, “but here’s our card. Give us a call early next week, and I’ll have better information for you.” She was great. I was pooped. The walk to and from the greenhouse did a number on me.

There was a distance of maybe fifteen feet from the man with whom I first spoke and that open space where the walkie-talkie was. The man wasn’t some young kid, of whom I’d expect such lack of service. He was a man probably in his mid-forties. He saw how I walked across the parking lot to ask him a question. He could have said something to the tune of wait a minute and let me call somebody. Instead, he chose to send me walking to the greenhouse…and the more I think about it, the more pissed I become. He was just being a lazy, rude son-of-a-bitch. The woman and I walked back, as I say, to within fifteen feet of where this guy was sitting. I cannot, in my wildest imagination, accept the fact that he was unaware of that communication device, how to use it, or whom he should call. I will call the nursery, and if they have my plant, I will purchase it. If that lazy, rude, SOB, is there, I will tell him just what I think of him. I’m old. I’m tired of people sending me on journeys of further than ten yards. I have illnesses that hinder my breathing, and I have injuries that make it difficult to walk. People who see me walk recognize that there is a problem. I’m not embarrassed or ashamed of my problems, but they’re there.

I related this story to a friend at the gym – by the way, my workouts are on a recumbent bike with weights being done on machines – and his response was this: “Funny that you mention this because I’ve noticed of late that there seems to be a lack of kindness in people.” He cited such things as men not holding doors for women whom they are with; people who cut in lines; those who honk their horns because the traffic isn’t moving fast enough when a light turns green; employees snapping at each other, and a few other examples. As I thought about his comments, I said to myself, “He’s right. That’s exactly what I’ve seen, and I’ve seen more of it lately.” It makes me wonder, are we, as a people, losing our respect for our fellow man to the extent that we can’t be patient and kind? Are we not caring about others anymore? Is it becoming, “Hooray for me and to hell with you?” Maybe it’s time that each and every one of us took a step back in our minds and tried to recall the last time we went out of our way to be polite to someone else. You may think that you’re polite all the time. I’d like to think that I am too, but in reality, are we always? Is it important? Does it matter if we are rude because we’re having a bad day, or maybe someone else was rude to us and its retaliation time? And I’m not certain that ‘rude’ is even the correct word. Perhaps it’s more a case of just not seeing or thinking or having something else on one’s mind that causes us to act in a manner that others consider to be discourteous.

Perhaps I’m way off base here, but I don’t think so. Perhaps I should have asked the first man if he could call someone to see if my tomato plant was available. Perhaps his day was not going well. Perhaps a lot of things, but perhaps we should all – me included – take a second look at how we behave toward others.

“No, no, no, no, no, no, NO, he’s gone. That’s it, period.”

“Aw, c’mon, maybe he thought the cameras were on. He’s used to that.”

“I’m tellin’ ya, he’s gone. He pushed the envelope too far this time.”

“Look, calm down…you telling me you did everything right the first time you got a new job?”

“New job? New job? You get this job, you better be prepared for whatever happens. This isn’t like becoming the head of GM or Ford…or even Goldman Sachs for god’s sake. I’m telling ya, he’s G-O-N-E!”

“Geez, Paul, Mitch thinks it’ll be okay. He just wants a little less drama. I don’t see why you gotta be so pissed.”

“Pissed? Pissed? You haven’t begun to see me pissed. He says we’re gonna ban Muslims…and that didn’t work…not once…but twice he said it, and it’s still not working. Then he says we’ve got a great repeal and replace health care program when he knows it’s a piece of crap. Then he blames us because his shitty health care program doesn’t get passed. Blames us, the crazy a.. idiot. What the hell is he thinking.”

“You gotta calm down man. You’re gonna work yourself into a heart attack. Okay, so he’s not sticking to script. Whadda you want me to do?”

“Do? Do? Talk to Ivanka. Talk to Jared. Talk to Kelly. Talk to the general. Somebody has to put a rein on this guy before he starts to give out classified information to the world.”

“Ah…ah…Paul. He, uh, he met with the Russian Ambassador the other d…

“Awe, cripes, don’t…you’re not…no, you’re not tellin me…”

“Ah, yep, sorry, Paul, but yeah, he did.”

“How bad?”

“Top Secret Code Word, Paul. I mean, he threw the Israeli’s right smack under the bus.”

“Aw, no, and right after Comey…aw, no, what is he thinki…no, there’s the problem right there. He’s not only not thinking, he doesn’t even have the capacity to think…Russian collusion, Mike Flynn, Comey, giving away top secrets, and now he tells them it’s the Israeli’s…aw man…

“…Well, he didn’t really say that it was the Israeli’s.”

“Whadda ya mean, he didn’t really say?”

“You know, it’s just that, well, you didn’t have to be a rocket scientist to know where it came from.”

“Oh, great, just great. Mossad’s really gonna want to share intelligence with us now. What’s next, Sarah Palin going to head up the FBI?”

“Paul, Paul, Paul, don’t say that too loud. We don’t know where the bugs are!”

“Oh, I know where the bugs are. The bugs are in his head. That doofuss couldn’t run an airline, his vodka business went up in flames, he’s got the Russians running their own ops out of one of his buildings, and all he can think of is grabbing more land from national monuments, probably to give to his oil drilling buddies, or for some new freakin’ golf courses!”

“Look, Paul, you’re the Speaker. You’ve gotta help us. We don’t know what to do. What do we do, Paul?”

“My advice? Now that everything has hit the fan, you come to me for advice? I’ll tell you what. Why don’t you call his son-in-law, Jared? He’s doing everything else right now, maybe he can take the guy’s computer away…or double his medication dosage…or just send him overseas and let Pence take over for a while. Nah, that won’t work either. He’ll take Pence’s batteries with him if he goes overseas. Think of it this way, now every other country in the world knows that Americans can vote even while they have their heads stuck up their collective…no, no, say, ‘heads in the sand.’ As for me, I’m going home to the first district and watch some Packer re-runs!”